It's control, I need control.

[Only since coming here, to the city, had Oliver begun to understand both his need for control and the way it was truly destroying the relationships he had. It was driving wedges between him and those he cared about most and he needed to just take a step back and stop it.]

I need to know that I control what happens around me instead of the other way around. I feel like if I control it, then I shoulder the responsibility. I control the outcome.