Sometimes it's hard to know what to say in the moment, especially when faced with something like that. I know. I've had those bombs dropped on me before and I've been the one to drop them on others.

[He wanted to help Barry in any way he could. He didn't want to see his friend struggling, or in pain, and wanted to bridge the gap between him and his friends in some way.]

Maybe you need to just give it some time. Keep your distance, wrap your head around it. Right now, it's too emotional for you.